Usual Relationship Conflict: My Partner Doesn't Listen to Me. This isn't just a minor annoyance; it's a profound, isolating experience. Why does "being heard" often feel like an impossible task in romantic relationships? It's rarely about a lack of caring. Instead, it's often rooted in a complex web of psychological blocks, both in the listener and sometimes even in the speaker, that prevent genuine understanding. This article will help you uncover these hidden reasons.