The desire for closure often masks a deeper emotional truth: we’re not seeking resolution — we’re avoiding grief. We want the story to make sense so we don’t have to feel the ache of its ending. We want the person to explain themselves so we don’t have to confront the silence they left behind. But healing is neither forgetting nor avoiding.

Why you keep choosing people who hurt you or emotional unavailable? It’s not random and it is your attraction choice of reenactment. This article will help you understand: Why emotional pain often feels like love How trauma repetition drives romantic choices What your nervous system is trying to resolve through attraction How to break the cycle and choose differently — without losing your capacity for connection