The desire for closure often masks a deeper emotional truth: we’re not seeking resolution — we’re avoiding grief. We want the story to make sense so we don’t have to feel the ache of its ending. We want the person to explain themselves so we don’t have to confront the silence they left behind. But healing is neither forgetting nor avoiding.

Lost in a Storm of Fighting, Hurt, and Misunderstanding in Relationship. Your partner cannot talk to you without fighting. The original point is long forgotten, lost in a storm of accusations, hurt, and misunderstanding. This article will guide you beyond the surface of your arguments to unmask the real, often unconscious, reasons why your attempts to communicate devolve into conflict.