You want love. But what if what you really want is to be chosen? Wanting to be love is "hunger", while wanting to loving is wholeness. This article is not about romantic advice. It’s about emotional truth. The kind that hurts before it heals. The kind that shows you why you keep chasing people who never stay — and how to stop.

Letting go isn’t forgetting. It’s a process and most of the time, it’s not about the person, but your projection, hope and illusion. This article explores: - why is letting go so hard from psychological and nerve system perspectives. - how to reclaim ourself and truly let go.